To Sheri: I lost my husband suddenly on our daughters 10 bday, so I understand grief & also that strange day once a yr. do we celebrate ? Pick a diff day? We have 12 yrs later learned to embrace it, celebrate life & loss & love.❤️To u. Ro is right , do the things that r soft & gentle . Joni helps me always. Strength to u sister. It’s a journey .