I am very concerned re: co-sleep w/your child. Children must be placed in a separate room (bed/crib), and cannot be coddled at every whim. Invest in a baby monitor. Do you really want your child to be a 33 year old adult, without proper coping skills? I may not have my own kids, but know a HELL of a lot. FYI: I published my thesis on this. TRUST ME