Question from MO

I too, stand at the shore. my 21 yr old daughter who had been doing good stole my car and went drinking. Crashed into a rock at her friends and did 4000 dollars worth of damage to my car. I can’t put thru ins and have to pay out of pock. I’m sick. I don’t have it and need a car to work. At some point u have to protect yourself. I can’t take it