Debbie: We are in the same place. I dread getting up for work and faking it all day. Can’t wait to go home and get back into bed. I overeat and feel guilty too. I’m not much of a shopper but if I had money, I may be 🙂 My mom is 90 and I know she would be hurt because she’s always been there for me. But, people just don’t understand the pain.