#metoo Morning after a date –we had sex, we were “dating”. He was 6’4″ 210, I was 5’4″ 125. I said No and he said “shhhhh”. I was very still and backwards cap on, walked me to my car. I brushed it off til 20+ years later. Who the fuck is gonna believe that was rape? It’s EXACTLY what it was. I still loathe backwards caps. Asshole.